The Archives Published by: How-To-Fix-My-Relationship ** How To Fix My Relationship Subject line: 5 ways to get back at your ex ======================= 5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex ======================= There are several ways that you can get back at your ex. If you do it the wrong way you can cause more harm and risk losing your ex altogether. Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really necessary? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these tips to get back at your ex, but they are also excellent methods for getting your ex back as well. 1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. Many times this will make your ex uncertain about you. If your ex still feels something for you he or she in a short time will show you that they need you. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not. 2 - Minimize communication. This means no telephone calls, emails or even visual contact if possible. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was. 3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play. 4 - Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem. Never be spide fool but going out with the opposite sex just to make your ex jealous.It's childish and usually does not work in the long run. 5 - Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well. =============================================== 100% Free Report - Download “The 7 Love Secrets That Could Change Your Life Forever!” If You Want More Intimacy, More Passion and Healthier, Longer-Lasting Relationships In Your Life, Then Get Ready! You're About To Discover Your Ultimate Love Potential... Visit: http://how-to-fix-my-relationship.com =============================================== Regards Johan Oosthuizen and Leanne Havenga Owners of How To Fix My Relationship http://how-to-fix-my-relationship.com PO Box 30360 Pioneerspark Windhoek Namibia Xanadu no.41 Kleine Kuppe Windhoek Namibia Next message     Last messageReturn to main archives page Copyright 2004 ©. All rights reserved.